Why Am I Always Last to Know?

News Flash Because Your Thoughts, Advice and Opinions are Not Wanted

There are many reasons why someone may not confide in you, but anytime this happens, and it catches you off guard or hurts your feelings, it is a great opportunity for self-reflection.

If someone you love dearly does not call or inform you of a major life change, good or bad, you might want to reevaluate your relationship to said person.

People confide in individuals they trust.

People confide in individuals whose advice they value.

If you are not sure if you are always giving answers to unasked questions, shut up.

People confide in individuals who do not mock their dreams, goals and plans.

People confide in individuals who are not self-centred.

Life is not perfect. Life is not all about you. Life is about making relationships work regardless of the distance, difficulties or developments afoot.

People want to be lifted up and cheered on, not dragged down and emotionally dismembered.

If you have a lot of free time on your hands, or if you find yourself alone and lonely more than you would like, think about your relationship with others.

Learn to mind your business and mind your mouth and you will see your relationships blossom, better and become more bountiful.

I write about issues that are near and dear to my heart, with the hope that my stories, experiences, and struggles may empower others: amanlitt.ca

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