Thank you for your informative reply. I do not agree or see eye to eye on all of your viewpoints, but you have given me a some things to thing about. I have added the book recommendation to my reading list. Thank you for the interesting perspective. One area I fundamentally disagree with you on is I do not want to be the leader all the time. It a fatiguing spot to be in and I do not need to be aware or in charge of all areas of our lives; hence the term partnership.