Statistically speaking men get a primary caretaker for their children, someone who does the majority, if not all, of the cooking and cleaning in the house, a person who books, organizes and schedules all events for the family and children, who more often than not is also a financial contributor on top of all of this ‘free’ work they are doing at home, so I would say that men do get a lot by getting married.

I am confused by your conversation regarding sex as something women give to men, but perhaps that is a conversation you should have with a professional on the matter. From my own standpoint, the fact that you feel a woman who is married to you owes you sex whenever you demand it is troublesome.

I do not see sex as something you ‘get,’ but rather a loving act two people willingly consent to and come together to do, so perhaps your viewpoint as sex as a service men take or get from women is a problem in itself and not my topic for this article.