Moving on from Divorce

Divorce is a life crushing experience, and I would never wish on anyone.

Divorce is the only large life failure which we willingly to share with others around us, even strangers sometimes.

Divorcees tend to take one of two routes:

It can be tough to hear, but no one is the perfect person in a relationship, we are all flawed human beings.

Being divorced brought me a lot of life gifts, which I am so grateful for.

I never grew up wanting to be a bride or even fantasizing about my perfect wedding day.

I am in a common-law relationship now and I am asked regularly when we will get married.

I am also not opposed to getting married again; my partner has never been married and I would never deprive someone of their big, special day, if it is something they truly wanted.

If you are going through a breakup, it can suck.

Marriage? Yes, it is great, but not for me, not right now and maybe not ever.

I write about issues that are near and dear to my heart, with the hope that my stories, experiences, and struggles may empower others: amanlitt.ca

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