Move Over, I’ve Got This

The Alpha Female is Here to Stay



An Alpha Female is a dominant female in a group. She dates as many males as she wants, is strong and confident, and a hard worker as well as often busy. She is usually sarcastic because she’s powerful and playful. Alpha Females are intelligent, intellectual problem solvers.

Alpha females are not confined by the constraints of society; they are aware of them, but do not succumb to them, but they are also not running from titles either.

Alpha females know that the world does not always make room for one of their kind, but they have no issues asking for the space they need.

“I’m not going to limit myself just because people won’t accept the fact that I can do something else.” — Dolly Parton

Dating an alpha female is dating someone who knows exactly what they want.

They are strong, direct and do not waste time playing games.

I remember, when I was dating, people would be shocked at my demeanour. I was constantly asked, ‘How were you comfortable doing that?’ or I was told, ‘I cannot believe you actually said that.’

I remember, when I started dating my current partner, he wanted the relationship to remain casual. I told him that I understood, but that his want would not work for me. I told him I was an all in or nothing person and he was pretty surprised.

He laughed and told me that no one had ever been so direct with him. I simply told him that I was not someone who wasted time with casual. I like to get as serious and deep, as I possibly can, as quickly as I can, to understand if it’ll work in the long run. I simply did not have the time to waste on something, which will not work out.

Alpha women are very independent and seen as always doing their own thing.




I write about issues that are near and dear to my heart, with the hope that my stories, experiences, and struggles may empower others.