I agree with you, Oprah has her own issues. I didn't give enough context with that quote. It was during a time that I was struggling to get pregnant and my mom was trying to show me that children are not the be all and end all. My mother had five children and she's very pragmatic; getting married and having children is not the best option for everyone. I am tired of us as a society selling marriage and children as the goal. We should be more open minded. There is a lot of strife with marriage and children.