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How to Get Through the Tough Times
Relationships are great when they are great, but when they are not so great it can be really hard to see the value in them.
Relationships are not an absolute, something which is definite and unchanging, but rather its something that is changing all of the time.
The person you met on the very first day and the person you are with today are not the same person. They have evolved, with your relationship, their own choices, and the direction of their life.
It is neither a good thing or a bad thing, it is simply a thing.
That is how life works; one day we wake up and we are years older and laugh at how we thought so many years ago. What excited us, during the early days of our relationship might drive us into wild, frenzied fights a few years in.