Are Feelings Fiction?

There are endless quotes verifying that we can feel anything into fruition: If we feel it, it shall come is the motto, right?

How much validity do our feelings really have though?

We always recommend to others to share their feelings, but most often, when you tell someone that they hurt your feelings, your feelings end up in an even shittier situation than they were in before the truth.

Why be honest then?

I have realized that all the times I pretended not to give a shit, things went my way. The less I looked like I cared, the more others cared to fit my needs.

What I have realized is that when I let down my walls, when I allow them to dip low enough, for someone to easily sneak in, I end up hurt.

Which version of life is better?

I am not sure which answer is better or more appropriate in our lives, but what I do know is that you have to choose one side and commit. If you keep flip, flopping from one concept to the next, you will drive yourself mad.

I write about issues that are near and dear to my heart, with the hope that my stories, experiences, and struggles may empower others:

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