Relationships can be taxing.

Relationships can take more out of you than fulfill you during certain chapters of the journey.

Relationships can feel meaningless or even harmful to your self-worth, growth and purpose when they are not functioning well.

It impacts your mental health because it takes a lot of…

Let me finish my point before you judge me.

Love ain’t shit.

For our whole lives, the goal has been love and we have been sold a bunch of bullshit.

Love? For real?

We are expected to find some person, an apparent ‘soulmate’ who will love us tirelessly until one…

I looked at my her quizzically and asked, “Why do you act as though the person stops being, learning or growing simply because they become a parent?”

“Because they do,” she snapped back, with the confidence only a boomer can exhibit, “like I said, when you have kids, you will…

News Alert: You’re Not Perfect Either

“Sometimes I wonder if men and women really suit each other. Perhaps they should live next door and just visit now and then.”

― Katharine Hepburn

Marriage is hard when you try to control who you are married to.

Marriage is hard when you try to force your marriage to…

Back to the way things were…

The ‘new’ normal….

Back to reality….

Whatever you want to call the future after all restrictions are released and COVID-19 is slowly transforming into a fading memory versus the consistent, daily reality which it is, nothing will change for the better unless you do.

You may be stressed about your relationship, finances, job stability or all three and the weight of the world makes it hard to face the day.

As tempting as it may be to wallow, waste away and be weary right now, I would strongly advise against these temptations.

This is…

“Few people have any next, they live from hand to mouth without a plan, and are always at the end of their line.” ― Ralph Waldo Emerson, poet and essayist

Safe usually entails keeping food on the table, a roof over everyone’s head and a sense of serenity within the…


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